James experienced his first seizure at only 6 months old. He was soon diagnosed with epilepsy and took anti-seizure medicine every day. Leading an active life and thriving academically, he graduated from high school in 2025. Tragically, his bright future was cut short by a breakthrough seizure and SUDEP (Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy) on October 14, 2025, only one month after starting at UCLA. He was 18 years old.

His family has said that although James had epilepsy since childhood, it never defined him. He was a dedicated student, Model UN delegate, cross country runner, soccer goalkeeper, avid skier, and huge fan of college and pro sports, always analyzing stats. His kindness and commitment to helping others was exemplified by his 10 years of volunteering with Friendship Foundation.

(Photo via the James family)

The James family has since committed themselves to raising awareness of epilepsy. 

"Ryan never wanted to be a poster child for epilepsy," his mother Nancy Hesterberg said at James' memorial service, "because he didn't want it to define him. But now, to give Ryan’s tragedy an ounce of purpose, we must share his story and increase awareness about epilepsy."

At the next Manhattan Beach City Council meeting on March 17, Mayor David Lesser will officially proclaim March 26 as Purple Day in honor of the international Epilepsy Awareness Day.